Are You Using Friends as Crutches?
Female friendships provide irreplaceable support as our cheerleaders, therapists, and comedy specials rolled into one, but they can subtly transform from empowering sisterhoods into dependency cycles that erode self-trust. The danger lies in constantly seeking validation from others instead of trusting our own judgment, slowly outsourcing our decision-making and disconnecting from our inner guidance.
• The difference between seeking advice versus seeking permission
• How dependency on external validation chips away at self-respect
• Why constantly polling friends for decisions teaches us our judgment isn't enough
• Common subconscious lies we tell ourselves about friendship and decision-making
• Reframing discomfort as an invitation to reconnect with yourself
• The paradox that less approval-seeking creates deeper connections
• Practical steps to rebuild self-trust while maintaining meaningful friendships
• Why true friendships reflect your power back to you instead of replacing it
May our relationships be sources of love, growth, and peace, with our confidence always rooted in Allah alone.
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