 The Real Cost of Low Confidence
Studies show that low confidence impacts mental health, work and relationships
Women who doubt themselves hesitate to take on new challenges or share ideas at work, this leads to missed opportunities and burnout
This same lack of confidence makes it hard to set boundaries or trust others, resulting in strained relationships.
Low confidence always has you doubting your faith, your spiritual capacity... which takes away from focus in your worship.
Between your profession, raising a family, serving others and nurturing your faith, it’s easy to feel inadequate – countless sisters face the same struggle.
Show Me The Solution
Introducing Wisdom Wednesdays:
A Coaching program to create Unshakeable Ethical Confidence for the Multitasking Muslim WomanÂ
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Live coaching every Wednesday at 6 pm ET via Zoom.
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Weekly Live Sessions: Join a private Zoom room where real Muslim women work through real issues.
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Replays and Transcripts: Can’t make it? Every session is recorded and transcribed.Â
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Priority Coaching: Pre‑submit your question to get coached first.
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My Proven Frameworks: We integrate C‑NEAR coaching, Qareen healing & soulful intelligence, trauma‑informed somatic work, NLP and IFS‑style inner healing.
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Access Includes: Instant orientation videos, a private Facebook group for support, wins and takeaways, weekly email reminders. Searchable database... search topics like “confidence,” “weight loss,” “parenting” or “self‑esteem” anytime.
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Join Now, Cancel Anytime: This is the most affordable way to access my private coaching.
 "I used to feel physically sick with anxiety every time someone questioned me...stomachaches, racing heart, rumination for days. Dr. Kanwal helped me see how my inner child was still trying to protect herself in the only way she knew how, by hiding, by overanalyzing. Wisdom Wednesdays taught me how to talk to her, to offer her safety. It’s changed my relationships, my work, and the way I see myself."
— WW Participant
"Each session brings new insights and perspectives that I hadn't considered before, adding immense value to my personal growth journey."Â
-WW Participant
"This session showed me how to turn my anxiety into something manageable and less intimidating."
- Faiza WW Participant
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"For years, I’ve felt like I was being attacked at work. Every correction felt personal. After just one coaching session in Wisdom Wednesdays, I finally understood how much of that anxiety was rooted in old childhood patterns. Now, instead of spiraling, I remind myself: 'Her reaction is hers. My safety is mine.' I walk into meetings calmer, clearer, and more in control than I ever imagined."
— S.H, WW Member
Why Mainstream Confidence Advice Doesn’t Work for Us
A lot of what’s sold as “confidence” today looks like chest-thumping, spotlight-chasing, loud energy. For many Muslim women, it's a turnoff.Â
Ethical confidence feels completely different. It’s Strong and Centered.
It's based in belonging rather than attention-seeking
It doesn’t come from trying to be better than others.
It comes from knowing Allah already made you worthy.
Arrogance needs attention to survive, it says, “I’m better than them.”
Confidence doesn't. Ethical confidence says, “I have nothing to prove.”
So if the confidence you’ve seen feels off...it’s not you. Current self-help version of confidence does NOT meet a Muslim Woman's needs
You deserve a version of confidence that reflects your values.
One rooted in humility, awareness, and service...not ego. and One that is UNSHAKABLE.
That’s what I teach inside Wisdom Wednesdays Coaching Program.
What Ethical Confidence Can Do For You
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Excel Professionally: Show up in meetings, share your ideas and seize promotions. Low confidence will hold you back at  ethical confidence propels you forward.
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Strengthen Relationships: Set healthy boundaries, communicate clearly and build trust. Lack of self‑confidence erodes relationships ethical confidence repairs them.
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Parent with Calm Authority: Model resilience and authenticity for your children.
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Deepen Spiritual Life: Purify intentions, embrace humility and overcome the fear of arrogance. Ethical confidence lets you worship and serve without self‑doubt.
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Feel Good About Yourself Without Guilt: Recognize your accomplishments and talents while staying grounded.
All of these AND MORE, should be your reason to join Wisdom Wednesdays NOW.Â
JOIN NOWShaitan loves it when you believe that piety means silence.
When you think your job is to just “sabr harder” until your nervous system gives out.
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Ethical Confidence will heal you from inside out.
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In Wisdom Wednesdays, you’ll learn how to tell the difference.
Between Confidence that is ego inflated… and the one that is ego aligned.
Between false humility… and true wholeness.
Between the version of you that’s surviving… and the one that’s finally living.
When You Gain Unshakable Ethical Confidence...You Can Expect Outcomes In Your:Â Â
Marriage:
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You stop making up for his emotional absence with hyper-responsibility.
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You set boundaries that don’t feel like ultimatums.
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You stop spiritualizing your burnout.
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You know the difference between sabr and self-abandonment.
As result of YOUR healing, your marriage becomes a source of peace.Â
Profession:
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You start to multitask without overwhelm
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You no longer feel like an outsider
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You stop confusing people-pleasing with professionalism.
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You honor your ambition without guilt or apology.
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As a result of YOUR healing, your work becomes a space of impact not just income.
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Self-Expression:Â
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You stop labeling hobbies as “extra.”
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You return to the things that make you feel alive
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You stop earning rest with productivity.
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You say yes to personal joy without justifying it
As a result of healing, your uniqueness becomes your strength.Â
Wealth:
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You stop confusing modesty with lack.
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You invest without asking for permission...internally or externally.
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You release the guilt of having more than others.
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You stop budgeting your joy.
As a result of YOUR healing, money becomes a tool of barakah
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Friendships:
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You stop confusing proximity with intimacy.Â
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You stop entertaining dynamics that drain you.
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You start choosing friendships that honor your growth, not your performance.
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You choose friends who nourish your soul, not just your schedule.
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As a result of YOUR healing, your friendships become sacred circles of safety and rejuvenation.
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Spirituality:Â
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You stop falling in the trap of spiritual bypassing
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You stop spiritualizing your pain and start transforming it.
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You pray because you want to, not because you’re afraid not to.
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You find Allah SWT in your joy...not just your hardships.
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As a result of YOUR healing, your spirituality becomes a source of deep trust and tenderness.
As a result of healing, your worship becomes much more connected.Â
Parenting:
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You stop parenting from fear of “messing them up.”
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You drop the guilt of not doing everything, all the time.
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You stop being afraid for your child’s emotions while disciplining.
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You model self-respect instead of self-sacrifice.
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As a result of YOUR healing, parenting becomes easy and joyful.Â
Why Wisdom Wednesdays?
As a physician life coach I combine my unique knowledge base, decades of experience and Islamic principles to offer unprecedented value. This program costs less than a fancy coffee per day yet delivers support that transforms your career, family and faith.
Over 85 % of people struggle with but you don’t have to be one of them.
Dr Kanwal Akhtar
Confidence & Intimacy Coach for Muslim Women
